Pressure...

Whether life is always under pressure?

whether long as we live there will always be pressure?

  Many people who complain about their lives.

They feel that their lives do not matter anymore, they feel that life is very difficult to get trough, they feel that they can not survive..

It's all a result of many demands and pressure they feel.

Sometimes, we are always expected to do all the things right. And,

this is what sometimes makes us feel not free and eventually lead to pressure on ourselves.

   "Life is a demands." I agree with those words. Because the demand is a way to lead 

us to a level of achievement and as a measure of our ability. And demand is what makes us to move forward.

I think, Demands like a video games. If we have reached a level then we will go to the next level with more pressure until we get to the finish line.

    So, do not make pressure or demands as obstacles in our lives but, make them as

a measure of the ability of us to reach the finish line...

                                           

C. JoyBell C.

         C. JoyBell C. she is also known for her poetry, prose, novel writing and is famed for her philosophical writings and speeches, many of which have been quoted in various books by different authors and can also be appreciated as incorporated by many artists into their diverse pieces. 

    And now, there are a couple of quotes from her...

 “Don't be afraid of your fears. They're not there to scare you.                                                       They're there to let you know that something is worth it.” 

 “We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets!  It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved.” 

“The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.”  

“The unhappiest people in this world, are those who care the most about what other people think.”  

“We can't be afraid of change. You may feel very secure in the pond that you are in, but if you never venture out of it, you will never know that there is such a thing as an ocean, a sea. Holding onto something that is good for you now, may be the very reason why you don't have something better.”  

“They say a good love is one that sits you down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top of the head. But I say a good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you loose like a wildfire and you can't stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch! I say that's a good love; one that burns and flies, and you run with it!”  

“I think that we are like stars. Something happens to burst us open; but when we burst open and think we are dying; we’re actually turning into a supernova. And then when we look at ourselves again, we see that we’re suddenly more beautiful than we ever were before!” 

“I'm not in search of sanctity, sacredness, purity; these things are found after this life, not in this life; but in this life I search to be completely human: to feel, to give, to take, to laugh, to get lost, to be found, to dance, to love and to lust, to be so human.”  

“I am a flawed person. A brook with many stones, a clear blue sky with many blackbirds. I have many shortcomings. A rainbow that’s not long enough, a starry night with clouds. But I can only be thankful to the God who loves me just this way, and I can only be grateful to the people in my life who accept the clear blue sky with many blackbirds and who are patient with the rainbow that isn’t long enough. And because of this, I am taught love, because of this I love my God, and I love these people.”  

“I have learned, that the person I have to ask for forgiveness from the most is: myself. You must love yourself. You have to forgive yourself, everyday, whenever you remember a shortcoming, a flaw, you have to tell yourself "That's just fine". You have to forgive yourself so much, until you don't even see those things anymore. Because that's what love is like.” 

And her books..

                                                           

    

     All Things Dance Like Dragonflies

                                             

    

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